He is just not that into you

Gosh, it was a totally great movie. Please go watch it. Really funny and romantic.. Like the story of the girl waiting by the phone most..

Hmm.. my thoughts after watching that show is that a lot of the theories are basically true. Girls jus want drama. They kind of jus want fairy-tale endings and no matter how hard they pretend to be tough, pretend not to want it secretely deep down inside there is a drama queen in all of us. Girls prefer to be in denial. They rather be lied to than to hear the truth. They wish they are the exception to the rule. Gosh..

I think we have to be realistic at times. Don't wait for the people who don't give a damn for us, treasure the ppl who love us, though they can't give us wat we want all the time and when it is time to get over it, get over it. Don't continue giving yourself false hopes. Easy to say hard to practice.

Girls just wants to be loved. They just want to believe in love. gosh.. we can be quite pathetic at times

life, office stuff..

today i realized that my boss actually paid for the welcome lunch at shang ri la. Was actually quite touched cos it cost $1300. I know some ppl will say y touched since he is e boss he should pay. But if you think he is not obligated to pay, he is like one of us, jus taking a pay from the company, this is not his company he is not obligated to be so good to his staff, but he is. And for that i m really touched. Recently due to the yr end audit we seems to have a lot of impromptu reports to do as requested by hq. And when he ask me to do them he was like so apologetic, sorry that he is adding on to my work. Honestly he made me feel so pai sai, it is like i m being paid to do this don't need to keep apologizing. Then after u complete the work he will thank you like siao.. gosh.. Really feel very appreciated and really want to work harder even though the pay is not high. Really v touched by this boss. I really love my company(What i m saying is that currently i love my company, cos maybe sth bad will really happen then i will hate everyone hee..)

Read this article on the newspaper. Girls only want to be wanted. hahah.. was thinking that it is quite true. But come to think of it guys these days really cmi, especially when they grow older, they r not that bold and would not dare to do things to really woo someone. Only if they r sure that e other person might have feelings for them then they woo them. Y like that! girls like being wooed even if they don't like tat guy and even if they reject that guy, that guy shouldn't be sad, cos the girl would have been touched and at least think highly of that guy for his courage. ahhahah.. Honestly hinting will not work, so guys please jus stop trying to hint. hahaha..

People seems to have unlimited wants, when they are in a relationship, they seem to expect more and more from someone. And well, hate it when girls want love for really superficial reasons. In the first place are you even good enough for that person, who are you to pick that person.

At the moment really enjoy being single, no problems.. all these stuff are too complicated for me. and when i say this don't doubt me, i m not u! I m not desperate like u! I don't want to have a bf for superficial reasons like you. And just for your information people who you like may not like you simply cos you are not good enough for them, jus like how you feel others are not good enough for you. I hate desperate people!!

And in case those reading this entry is guessing there is nothing to guess this entry is really simply my thoughts of the world and people.

Happy birthday to me!

This post is long due, but well didn't have the time to blog. Was basking in the happiness of my birthday.

Honestly, this yr bday is one of the best bday i have had. It is not great because i got a lot of presents, it is cause of the people who celebrated with me, honestly jus having them with me is the greatest present. I don't mean to be so mushy, but this is truly wat i feel.

Birthday started with the company celebrating for me. Hee.. The feeling of the whole company singing you a loud birthday song is great, even the south african guest had to sing. hahha.. Hmm.. my company is like my family, feel really great with them. Some of my colleague also initiated to celebrate with me on my bday day. Due to some things we didn't celebrate together, but it was the thought that count.

That night i met my pri sch fren. Was surprised to receive a prez fr minli, didn't expect them to give me a present. Met teresa too. She gave me a prez too. totally didn't expect it.

After that on the actual day i asked my best fren to come my hse to get jap notes. wasn't expecting anything this yr, but she bought me a cake a bday prez and a bday card. Quite touched.

After that met my elin, yik, xw, hq and pw. was surprised pw came. he was jus accompanying hq. but honestly he was quite a good sport to chip in for my prez and treating me to dinner, hmm.. nv was such good frens with him and hq so feel a bit pai sai for letting them treat me, feel super thankful too.. If i have a chance to celebrate his bday on it will treat him back.

The ae bought a coin pouch fr agnes b for me. was suprised and touched.. agnes b stuff is definately not cheap, furthermore i didn't get her anything for her bday..

Gosh really feel very blessed at the moment! Have a lot of friends and colleague who treat me well... I really can feel their sincerity. So thankful that ur r all around. and also thankful to those who remember to greet me on my bday grateful for that too. hee..